Are You Willing, Regardless Of Whatever Else Is Going On, To Be Open In Communicating About What Is On Your Mind?
“My number one question to ask is this: Are you willing, regardless of anything else that is going on, to be open in communicating with me about what is on your mind?
If both of you agree to this, you can get through a lot of stuff that can otherwise kill a relationship. It creates trust and it pre-empts problems, and just as importantly it stops those little irritants from lingering until they suddenly become horrible, bitter arguments.”