You Both Start Getting Unhappy
You start thinking about the time when you were happy in your relationship and how unhappy you’re feeling right now. You don’t want to admit to yourself that it is not going well, you don’t seem like you enjoy it when the two of you are together.
This is an indication that your relationship is going in the wrong direction. The relationship is just there out of habit and nothing else. You hear people say this all the time, about how happy they were. In most cases this is just a rationalization that they have about the relationship.
Most probably they were never happy in the relationship with their partner and after a while, they substituted those feelings of unhappiness with fictional happiness that never existed before. This kind of relationship can go on and be the cause of an unhappy marriage.